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To Have and to Hold review

“Ploddingly paced”
Marion Bailey and Alun Armstrong in To Have and to Hold at Hampstead Theatre, London. Photo: Marc Brenner
Marion Bailey and Alun Armstrong in To Have and to Hold at Hampstead Theatre, London. Photo: Marc Brenner

Touching but turgidly paced portrait of an ageing couple coming to terms with mortality

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Prolific playwright Richard Bean’s latest piece has a wistful tone. Partly inspired by his own parents’ experiences, it unfolds as a series of sketches covering a few days in the lives of 91-year-old former policeman Jack Kirk and Florence, his wife of 70 years. As their adult children arrive for their final visit, Jack and Flo contemplate moving out of the home that they have shared for decades, contend with their increasing infirmity and do their best to ignore the suspicion that one of their neighbours has been stealing from them.

Bean’s dialogue is precisely observed and laced with pleasing laconic humour. There is an unmistakable ring of truth in the way Jack and Flo relentlessly needle each other – their bickering believably reflects the complicated, co-dependent dynamic of a long-married couple who share a deep affection but are simultaneously sick of the sight of each other. But co-directors Richard Wilson and Terry Johnson struggle to inject a sense of forward momentum into a ploddingly paced play that realistically depicts the purposelessness many people experience in the last years of life.
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For the most part, the characters leave their feelings unspoken, but Wilson and Johnson ensure that plenty of subtext is conveyed non-verbally. In private moments, looks of desolating grief or undisguised tenderness flash across the characters’ faces, only to be quickly stifled. James Cotterill’s realistic, densely detailed set lavishly recreates the Kirks’ dated but cared-for home, right down to the dainty floral wallpaper and the burgundy carpets. In a repeated sight gag, a working chairlift descends frustratingly slowly from an upper floor.

Marion Bailey carries much of the show’s humour as exhausted, plain-spoken Flo, making her character’s frequent malapropisms and comic misunderstandings feel fresh and natural. Christopher Fulford and Hermione Gulliford play the Kirks’ children: Fulford’s whiny, facetious author Rob hides his concern under a facade of snide superiority, while Gulliford is all brittle, cold confidence as amoral business manager Tina. Adrian Hood provides an interesting counterpoint as gregarious, rough-around-the-edges neighbour Eddie, who shows more care and affection for Jack and Flo than either of their offspring can muster.

Alun Armstrong’s Jack is a satisfyingly complex character, mentally sharp but distressed by his physical weakness, and miserably lonely, having outlived his friends. Hands shaking and voice trembling, Armstrong captures all of Jack’s frailty, but becomes alert and animated when he tells anecdotes from his time on the police force. Related in quiet, self-contained scenes, these snappy stories feature a pleasing mix of intriguing details, dark turns and witty punchlines, giving a substantial lift to a production that otherwise feels stuffy and subdued.

Production Details
Production nameTo Have and to Hold
VenueHampstead Theatre
LocationLondon
Starts26/10/2023
Ends25/11/2023
Press night06/11/2023
Running time2hrs 20mins
AuthorRichard Bean
DirectorRichard Wilson, Terry Johnson
Assistant directorJos Vantyler, Charlotte Conquest
Set designerJames Cotterill
Costume designerJames Cotterill
Lighting designerBethany Gupwell
Sound designerJohn Leonard
Casting directorRobert Sterne
Cast includesAdrian Hood, Alun Armstrong, Christopher Fulford, Hermione Gulliford, Marion Bailey, Rachel Dale
Production managerDavid Pritchard
Company stage managerMichael Dennis
Deputy stage managerDavid Purdie-Smith
Assistant stage managerBenedict Rattray
ProducerHampstead Theatre
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